Love Never Fails (From 1st Corinthians 13)
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not
rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does
not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always
hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
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Love isn’t perfect
Love isn’t perfect, it isn’t a fairytale or storybook and it doesn’t always come easy.
Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on and
never letting go.
It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define, and impossible to live without.
Love is work, but most of all, love is realising that every hour, every minute, every second
of it was worth it because you did it together.
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An Irish Blessing
May your mornings bring joy and your evenings bring peace.
May your troubles grow few as your blessings increase.
May the saddest day of your future
Be no worse than the happiest day of your past.
May your hands be forever clasped in friendship
And your hearts joined forever in love.
Your lives are very special,
God has touched you in many ways.
May his blessings rest upon you
And fill all your coming days
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Dr Seuss - Oh the places you’ll go
Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!
You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the two who’ll decide
where to go.
You’ll look up and down streets. Look’em over with care. About some you will say, “I don’t
choose to go there.” With your heads full of brains and your shoes full of feet, you’re too
smart to go down a not-so-good street.
And you may not find any you’ll want to go down. In that case, of course, you’ll head
straight out of town. It’s opener there in the wide open air.
Out there things can happen and frequently do to people as brainy and footsy as you.
And when things start to happen, don’t worry. Don’t stew. Just go right along. You’ll start
happening too.
Oh! The Places You’ll Go!
And will you succeed?
Yes! You will, indeed!
(98 and ¾ percent guaranteed.)
Kids, you’ll move mountains!
So…
be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray
or Mordecai Ale Van Allen O’Shea
[Optional] or {insert the couples name here},
you’re off to Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So ... get on your way!
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As long as I’m with you
When your hair has gone, mine is grey,
And our clothes are out of style –
We’ll start our moans with, “in my day”,
Short walks might take a while.
However long the journey;
No matter what our view.
I will cherish every step,
As long as I’m with you.
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Of Shared Love In Marriage - Victor Hugo
You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving. The great acts of love
are done by those who are habitually performing small acts of kindness. We pardon to the
extent that we love. Love is knowing that even when you are alone, you will never be
lonely again. And great happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved. Loved for
ourselves. And even loved in spite of ourselves.
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‘I Do’
Ladies and Gentlemen,
They are about to say “I Do”
three little letters, two little words.
It’s the simplest part of the day; but there is nothing simple about the things that will remain
unsaid.
“I Do”; means I do know I could be hurt, but I am ready to be healed with you.
It means I do want to try, even when the fear of failure holds me back.
And I do not know the future, but I am ready to be surprised along the way.
“I Do”; means I do want your love and I do give you mine.
And nothing we do will ever be the same, because we will be doing it all together
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I’ll Be There For You
I’ll be there, my darling, through thick and through thin
When your mind’s in a mess and your head’s in a spin
When your plane’s been delayed, and you’ve missed the last train.
When life is just threatening to drive you insane
When your thrilling whodunit has lost its last page
When somebody tells you, you’re looking your age
When your coffee’s too cool, and your wine is too warm
When the forecast said, “Fine,” but you’re out in a storm
When your quick break hotel, turns into a slum
And your holiday photos show only your thumb
When you park for five minutes in a resident’s bay
And return to discover you’ve been towed away
When the jeans that you bought in hope or in haste
Just stick on your hips and don’t reach round your waist
When the food you most like brings you out in red rashes
When as soon as you boot up the bloody thing crashes
So my darling, my sweetheart, my dear…
When you break a rule, when you act the fool
When you’ve got the flu, when you’re in a stew
When you’re last in the queue, don’t feel blue
’cause I’m telling you, I’ll be there
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Two are better than one
Two are better than one,
because they have a good return for their labor:
If either of them falls down,
one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls
and has no one to help them up.
Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
But how can one keep warm alone?
Though one may be overpowered,
two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
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The Art of Marriage by Wilfred A Peterson
Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In the art of marriage the little things are the big things…
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say “I love you” at least once a day
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted;
The courtship should not end with the honeymoon,
It should continue with all the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of
joy.
It is speaking words of appreciation
And demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience,
Understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
It is finding room for the things of the spirit.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual
and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.
It is discovering what marriage can be, at its best.
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Always Love Each Other
If you can always be as close
And as happy as today
Yet be secure enough to grow
And change along the way
If you can keep for you alone
Your love as man and wife
Yet find the time to share your joy
With others in your life
If you can be as one
And walk through marriage hand in hand,
Yet still support the goals and dreams
That each of you had planned
If you can dare to always go
Your separate ways together
Then all the wonder of today
Will stay with you forever.
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Jim Halpert - Season 9, Episode 22 of The Office
All I know is that every time I’ve been faced with a tough decision, there’s only one thing
that outweighs every other concern. One thing that will make you give up on everything
you thought you knew. Every instinct. Every rational calculation.
Love.
No matter what happens, you’ve got to forget about all of the other stuff. You’ve got to
forget about logic and fear and doubt. You’ve just got to do everything you can to get to the
one woman who is going to make all this worth it.
At the end of the day you’ve got to jump.